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Tiger Woods, Vanessa Trump, and LoveStyles.AI
Not what you want to hear, but what you need to hear
You’ve seen the headlines. Tiger Woods. Another DUI. The golf world is crushed just two weeks before The Masters.
But what about Vanessa?
For several months, Tiger Woods has had a very public relationship with the President’s former daughter-in-law. She loves him. But she wants to protect her kids. What should she do?
Sixty percent of all AI users use it for relationship advice. That’s understandable. We all need some private, confidential, and personal direction when it comes to our most important relationships.
But here’s the problem. AI is often trained to tell you what you want to hear. I’ve read cases where it will give a user step-by-step directions to do horrific things.
So we need help, but we shouldn’t trust generic AI. What should we do?
That’s where LoveStyles.AI comes in. For the past several months, our team at Change The Odds has been working on this project, training an AI on everything I’ve written. This allows you to privately and confidentially have a conversation and get good advice.
While generic AI tells you what you want to hear, LoveStyles.AI tells you what you need to hear.
Consider what it told Vanessa Trump. See this Instagram post to see the actual response it gave to the question: “I have a friend who is dating a guy who just got another DUI. He seems to have a problem with pain pills. She has children in the home. Should someone break up with a boyfriend who has an active addiction or should she find a way to support him through it.?”
While most of us aren’t dating a world-famous athlete, many of us have faced something similar:
A relationship where something isn’t right
A struggle with a child that we don’t know how to handle
A boss we need to convice about an idea
A mother-in-law who keeps overstepping
A marriage that is good but could be better
In moments like these we need direction, but we must be careful of where we turn. While friends are great support, they don’t always give great advice. As I’ve written, Love Your Friends, But Don’t Listen To Them. While well meaning, they will often tell you to stay when you should step back, excuse when you should set boundaries, and they will call it support while it’s often enabling.
That’s why we built LoveStyles.AI.
A place where you can ask real questions about your relationship (privately, honestly) and get clear, grounded answers.
No guessing. No overthinking. Just clarity.
Because the real question isn’t about Tiger Woods or Vanessa Trump.
It’s about you.
Where are you ignoring a pattern?
Where are you hoping instead of deciding?
Where do you need clarity right now?
Go ask.
As for Tiger, I have compassion. He really needs to discover the pain from his past that’s still creating problems in his present. Thankfully, there is a book for that:

