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Kevin A. Thompson

Kevin A. Thompson is a husband, father, and Married Life Pastor at Bayside Church in the Greater Sacramento Region. The author of multiple books, including, Friends, Partners & Lovers and Fearless Families. Kevin is passionate about seeing families thrive. Originally from Arkansas, Kevin has been a frequent guest on Focus on the Family, Family Life, and featured in the New York Times. He writes at kevinathompson.com and changetheodds.com. He and his wife, Jenny, along with their two children reside in Auburn, CA.

The Invisible Weight We Both Carry

Jun 18, 2026

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3 min read

The Invisible Weight We Both Carry

A silent-marriage killer very few talk about

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
Stop Micro-Managing Your Spouse

Jun 11, 2026

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3 min read

Stop Micro-Managing Your Spouse

Your role as partner doesn't call for you to manage your spouse.

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
Why Most Marriage Books Don't Work

Jun 4, 2026

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3 min read

Why Most Marriage Books Don't Work

They are full of good content but focused on the wrong story of the house.

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
The Blind Spot Threatening Most Good Marriages

May 28, 2026

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1 min read

The Blind Spot Threatening Most Good Marriages

Test your marriage with this 3-minute assessment

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
Why a Good Spouse Is Often a Bad One

May 21, 2026

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2 min read

Why a Good Spouse Is Often a Bad One

The easy-going, laid back approach is not always as good as it lets on.

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
The Tension Every Ambitious Couple Feels

May 14, 2026

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2 min read

The Tension Every Ambitious Couple Feels

How to chase big dreams without losing each other

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
Genesis 3 Still Affects Your Marriage

May 7, 2026

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2 min read

Genesis 3 Still Affects Your Marriage

When people think I'm talking psychology, I'm actually talking theology

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
The 3 Fears Driving Your Relationships

Apr 23, 2026

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2 min read

The 3 Fears Driving Your Relationships

See what's driving you so you can choose something better

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
5 Signs Your Love Is Secure

Apr 16, 2026

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2 min read

5 Signs Your Love Is Secure

What emotionally secure relationships really look like

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
The Real Problem Isn't What You Think

Apr 9, 2026

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5 min read

The Real Problem Isn't What You Think

Many people are wrong about what is the greatest struggle in their most important relationships.

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
Nothing Was Wrong...But Her Chest Tightened

Apr 1, 2026

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4 min read

Nothing Was Wrong...But Her Chest Tightened

Why parenting fights aren't always about parenting

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
Tiger Woods, Vanessa Trump, and LoveStyles.AI

Mar 29, 2026

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4 min read

Tiger Woods, Vanessa Trump, and LoveStyles.AI

Not what you want to hear, but what you need to hear

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
How Many Times a Week Is Healthy?

Mar 26, 2026

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3 min read

How Many Times a Week Is Healthy?

Healthy intimacy has a consistent rhythm

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
Stop Hearing What You Want. Start Hearing What You Need

Mar 19, 2026

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4 min read

Stop Hearing What You Want. Start Hearing What You Need

AI is good but it's biased to being liked by you. LoveStyles.AI is different.

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
An Overlooked Influence On Marriage

Mar 12, 2026

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8 min read

An Overlooked Influence On Marriage

Everyday you see in the mirror something impacting your marriage

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
The 'Does It Really Matter' Test

Mar 5, 2026

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4 min read

The 'Does It Really Matter' Test

the simple question to stop unnecessary conflict

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
The Drift No One Warns You About

Feb 26, 2026

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4 min read

The Drift No One Warns You About

The practical reasons many couples don't hold hands anymore

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
Don't Be Addicted to Drama

Feb 19, 2026

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2 min read

Don't Be Addicted to Drama

How to stop confusing adrenline with meaning

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
Why Are So Many Adult Children Ghosting Their Parents?

Feb 12, 2026

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4 min read

Why Are So Many Adult Children Ghosting Their Parents?

Estrangement is a growing epidemic in families.

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
The Fight That Happens In Your Head

Feb 5, 2026

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3 min read

The Fight That Happens In Your Head

Some fights take place in our heads and our spouses don't even know

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
A Fight That's In Her Head (and a new job announcement for me)

Jan 28, 2026

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5 min read

A Fight That's In Her Head (and a new job announcement for me)

He's in a fight and doesn't even know it yet.

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
Why You Keep Having the Same Fight (even when you promise not to)

Jan 19, 2026

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3 min read

Why You Keep Having the Same Fight (even when you promise not to)

Attachment doesn’t just affect who you love; it shapes how you fight, withdraw, and reconnect.

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
You Are Fighting About the Wrong Thing

Jan 15, 2026

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5 min read

You Are Fighting About the Wrong Thing

Most fights are about something other than what you think they are.

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
Five Marriage Trends for 2026

Jan 8, 2026

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4 min read

Five Marriage Trends for 2026

Is your relationshp a statistic waiting to happen or can you buck the trend?

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
One Question Will Shape Your Relationships in 2026

Jan 1, 2026

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4 min read

One Question Will Shape Your Relationships in 2026

Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson
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