You Took the Assessment. Now Take Your Next Step.

Hi friends,

This week, over 2,000 of you took the Love Styles Assessment. If you are interested, about 40% of respondents have been secure, and the same percentage have been anxious. Why aren’t more being described as avoidant? Because those with an avoidant pathway generally don’t take assessments. Ha.

Most people go their entire lives feeling confused by their reactions, frustrated in their closest relationships, and stuck repeating patterns they swear they’ll never repeat again.

And yet you took a step most people never take:
You got curious about why you love the way you do.

Remember, your love style isn’t a label. It’s a map of patterns you have learned, reactions that have become your default, and the pathway to show you how to love better.

And the assessment was just the front door.

If you haven’t grabbed the book yet… this is the moment.

My new book, Love Styles: Why You Love the Way You Do (and How to Change It), takes the simple insight you got from the assessment and shows you:

• Why you respond the way you do in conflict

• What your nervous system is trying to protect

• How your past formed your “autopilot” in relationships

• Most importantly, how real change is possible

In the book signing line this past weekend, people are telling me things like:

• “Where were you 30 years ago?”

• “You just explained my divorce.”

• “I didn’t realize my wife wanted to connect.”

• “Now I know what I should do the next time I’m tempted to protest or defend.”

If you’ve ever thought,
“What’s wrong with me?”
or
“Why do my relationships feel harder than they should?”

I wrote this book for you.

👉 Pick up your copy here:

And if you have already purchased it, can I ask a small but meaningful favor?

Would you leave a quick Amazon review?

It doesn’t have to be long or fancy. A sentence or two is perfect.
Your review helps people who feel confused or discouraged find the hope and clarity this book offers. It’s one of the most impactful ways to support this message.

👉 Leave your review HERE

Let me leave you with this:

Your Love Style isn’t your destiny. It’s simply the starting point Jesus uses to grow you into someone capable of giving and receiving deeper love.

Thank you for taking the assessment.
Thank you for being curious.
And thank you for being willing to do the work that changes not just your relationships… but the generations that come after you.

If you have any questions, respond to this email. And go back and give Sunday’s sermon another look to remind yourself of how we are learning to be loved and to love.

I’m grateful for you,
Kevin